RTL' Why would her family say you raped her? How did she get them to believe this when they know you? It is absurd, first child abuse, then rape. I don"t understand about saying she is the main parent, right now she has physical custody so of course she is, even when you were living together.What does that mean? It only becomes an issue when the parents are living apart . Many fathers work longer hours thah their wife but that doesn't mean they shouldn't share custody if they divorce. This stuff about the rape and the mailbox sounds like she came up with it while drinking and convinced people. But at this point, before she bankrupts you with legal fees, maybe you should go to your lawyer and ask how to get it over with. Talk about offering terms and negotiating rather than to continue to fight with lawyers. Ask him to find out what she really wants and what she will do to settle this without continuing to make the lawyers rich. After this maybe you should really have no contact with W, and arrange visitation through the lawyer
