You showed what type of man she is losing. You could have beat the living snot out of him, but what does that get you? A night in jail? You were the better man! You looked at him, you made him acknowledge you were there, and you were the man with dignity. Keep that in your mind. You are the man with dignity.
Don't you hate the quiet rules in the library? :-) H4H - you did the right thing regarding walking away - trust me, he had more shame than you did.
Since you are in the library, what are you going to do for you? What can you do tonight to make yourself feel better, other than find the guy and beat him up? You have a wonderful set of kids that depend upon you. Be strong for them as well.
As one of my posters said, we are the ones standing up for what is right, in a sense, we are the hero's in all of this, not the victim. Unfortunately, we both have been acting like the victims.
Peace,
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09