I have to admit, I don't know what I would have done H4H - knowing my temper, I would have been throwing punches. I have no idea what OM looks like, but I can hold my own. I am not a small guy myself!
Keep venting, keep talking. I will be on for awhile. I added the post I sent to you on my thread.
Peace,
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09