Stronger - but still confused

[Snow White]

Well guess what H wsn't teething. After him staring out the window miserable (memories of January) I said to him I am lonely when you are not here but it is better than this. I said do you not want to move back in is that why you are so miserable, he said I do want to I'm just not ready yet. So I asked the forbidden question. Is it because of her? I got the snappy no it is not because of her?

Me - are you still talking to her
H - at work yes.
Me - well then that is the decision right there, you are not welcome to move back in as long as you are still talking to her.

H - (shocked and suprised - have I been speaking greek?)You want me to stop talking to her even at work before I move back in? That is your rule?

Me - yes, I am not sure why you are suprised we have been discussing this since March when I found out you were still talking to her, I thought you moved out to try to get through that I didn't think you would be coming back here and still calling her. She destroyed our family I will not continue our M while you still talk to her. If I said to you we will be getting a divorce unless you stop talking to E(a manager from a different store) could you do it?

H - Yes

Me - then don't tell me you have to talk to her for work and the fact that you cannot stop means that you are not committed to this M

Then I got up and did the dishes.

H sat on the couch about another half an hour then got up to leave. Says to me when he is leaving I will try starting tomorrow, but believe me 9 times out of 10 it about work and I can't help it if she answers the phone when I call there(lame).

I had in the pocket of my jacket from weeks ago 4 quotes that GF had put on my thread in different posts from "Not just Friends"

2 were about being trustworthy and the other 2 were about AP that were in the workplace. I handed them to him to read and told him I did not write these they are from a book written about what happened to us. He took it to read.

I just recd a text "I will try my best tomorrow to stop"