"Is it a coincidence that the rate of divorce amongst second marriages is higher than 1st, and even higher when they were created from adultery???"
Julie is spot on here Shoe! Good advice! Who's really the one moving on here? He seems to keep repeating his mistakes. Three marriages in 12 years? When's he coming up for air?
Glad to hear your cat is better. About your new friend.. the best policy is to be honest with him and let him know about any trust issues you have. I'm sure he'll understand. It's natural for us to feel that way after what we have been through.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
