I have to agree with Tails on this one. It is too long. However, I applaud you for explaining why this is a critical issue for you and for setting forth an ultimatum for change. The rest of the my fault your fault could be reduced to one sentence. To further your communication of the critical nature of sex for you, can you compare it to a critical need of hers? Communication maybe? Please post what you end up with so it can be stolen (used) by me and others. Note, I have not had the courage to do this and I just continue in witholding sex from my wife in a passive agressive stunt...
