I know you are a busy lady on these boards and your valued opinions are much needed elsewhere but it's good that you still check in on me.
Originally Posted By: Sandi2
I can also understand why she just wants to act as if the OM never happened. I think she just wants to move on and try to forget it b/c everytime she talks about him.....he becomes real again and it's like she relieves the A. She doesn't want to think about it.
I've seen you post this elsewhere so I know that for now I've just got to leave it, I saw the one time that I tried to talk R with W she went off being an alien so no point in pushing that now. Yes I do want to talk about some things, if anything to get some closure but if it's likely to set things back then best to leave it. To be honest the whole sitch is on my mind everyday but now I think about things without the emotion so I know I can cope well
Originally Posted By: sandi2
She still has her bad moments and this may last for a while. Remember.....it's a process.
Believe me I do have my bad days, sometimes I look at W and see the beautiful young lady I met and fell in love with, other days I just want to scream and shout at her for all the pain she's caused me, but I guess that will fade in time. I hope the bad dreams will as well, cos I have no control over them when they come.
So in the main we are doing well, I have to admit that W's actions are showing the way, I know she won't even comment on them in case they lead to R talk but I know we are moving in the right direction.
