Even though you don't post all that much, I must say, that when you do it's like a shot in the arm every time. You show depth of understanding and have a no nonsense approach. I like that very much.
As for the bleeding, the dr. is not sure what is causing it at this point and has turned me over to his partner as he himself is going on vacation for a month. I do know that a colonoscopy will be done fairly soon. Naturally I'm hoping for something benign.
I agree that my H is the man for the job and he should step up to the plate.
I needed to hear someone, other than the voice in my head, say "What he is asking of you right now is too much, it's too selfish".
"It might even be the case that if he focuses on your health specifically, and on someone other than himself generally, it would be good for his whole outlook on life and your R."
