I may seem to be alone in this idea, but less is more. You are gaining momentum in a certain direction at the moment. It is not a direction I would travel myself but that is up to you.
Just stop, and work on you. Even if W gives up A right now, it will be a while before you are both ok. You said youself we are in similar sitchs, only I am 3 months further along. Cant you give it 3 months? See how things pan out. If you look back wont you wish you had tried to give it more time. How much time is up to you, I personally set a 12 month timeline for me.
Good Luck Man, please keep cool till I get back
See you Monday!
Steve
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.
