O.k. in response to that quote about always doing what you've done and getting what you've always got: I guess I am confused. I know the quote is true, but I cant figure out what I am doing that is wrong. I have DB'ed by the rules and it brings him back. I just feel like my H is still in Replay and no matter what I change or do will not matter. That is why I decided to not send that letter I wrote last week to him. However, the letter itself would be a complete 180 and something I have not tried. But everyone told me not to send it.
I feel like this cycling my H is doing was just a temp. check cause he is scared I am moving on with out him. He has not called or text or left a note today, and I have a feeling that he wont again for a very long time.
I am afraid I pissed him off last night in our texts. I basically would not say more than one word answers to him when he was trying to drag a response out of me to indicate whether or not I have moved on. I wouldnt budge and he stopped texting. He also has not made a move towards me after last night when he seemed so eager again to see me. I am so confused.
I am trying to prepare myself for a face to face with him, as I know it will come sometime soon. I am torn as to keep DBing(being kind and acting as if and not saying a whole lot) or to stand up to him more and show more intolerance towards his actions and behaviors.
Any advise would be great, I appreciate your insights, I just need more clarification and something that is concrete to go on. Thanks, TIPPER
