I honestly would lay off talking to him about getting her moved out, etc. for awhile and see what happens. It takes time and things do not happen overnight as you well know.
And just how many months waiting is she meant to do ON TOP of the months of waiting she has already done.....and on top of all the other little snippets like phone calls and visits etc she has found out about??????
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength