ACJ, there are no guarentees in life. No book is going to be able to get your husband back, not unless you hit him over the head with it and it gives him amnesia...
"Yes! You love me, we have been married for 20 years, and on Weds nights you cluck like a chicken for hours..."
Your thinking this might have been a huge waste of time...
It might have been...
Have you learned nothing from this though? Even if it isn't with your H, don't you think you have learned how to be a better partner in any future realtionships from this book? Or the ideas here on the board?
If you honestly don't think you have changed at all if your perceptions haven't been altered a little...then yeah...I guess this might be a waste of your time.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 04/29/0808:02 PM.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
