The main answers I received though was it's more about changing us and the M is just a bonus
But that isn't the message you get when you first read the book. It's not called 'Saving yourself remedy' It's called 'Divorce Remedy'. Don't get me wrong I understand that not all Ms can be saved. I'm just questioning whether I have actually achieved anything or whether I have just delayed my agony.
Too much turmoil right now to know
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15