got in HUGE fight with h today. it's freezing here today and tongight it will be 28 degrees. about 6 months ago (long before bomb), h (who is super-cheap), put a "lock box" on the thermostat because I TWICE put it up to 70 degrees. Well, he has the keys ot the f'ing thing and I called him at work and told him he needed to come over and unlock it as it's freezing in here and we have a daughter 5 years old. he refused. HOW COULD YOU REFUSE THIS??? he told me to "break" the box open with a hammer. my friend came over and we both tried to do it and the ENTIRE thing broke along with thermostat meter. I called h and he emailed me f**ck you. I called local hardware store and they came and replaced it. I gave them the number to his work so he'll have to put it on his credit card. I know this is going to make him super-mad and is this a db slide? But this is about HEAT IN THE HOUSE!!! he told me "I'm not driving there for this". that is an exact quote.
I'm at a loss. I don't even know who this man is anymore. clearly spending time with ow is more important. did I just majorly inflame an already bad situation??