I know that you are faced with a painful turn of events at the moment, so your coming here to support me now shows what I good guy you really are. Too bad your W is still unable to recognized that. We sure do.
There's probably lots of "reasons" your H has for doing this, but if he's anything at all like my H, he doesn't like the man he was that would do such a thing and needs to "fix" (morph) into someone "better". It seems to be a cocoon-like phase that they need to do alone. Remember that in your darkest moments. It probably won't be long before you start to see some real positive changes in your H's actions.
As always, you have a talent for painting pictures with words.
"he doesn't like the man he was that would do such a thing and needs to "fix" (morph) into someone "better". It seems to be a cocoon-like phase that they need to do alone."
My H did leave but spent lots of time talking to me before he did and we sorted some stuff out that helped me last night to deal a little better than I thought I might.
I did sleep most of the night. Took two tylenol PM when he left though figuring I might not sleep.
Take care and my thoughts and hugs are with you!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
