SPM - You Sir are truely a good man. I like your attitude and hopefully with your guidance, your daughters will learn not to follow the path of their mother and grandmother in their future relationships.
As in RefuseToLose's situation, I believe that you will prevail in all of this. You are taking the high road and will be able to pick up the pieces when this is over and move on successfully to a better life with someone that believes that marriage takes work on both partners to keep it alive.
