I don't know where my MC is coming from. I feel everytime I leave, my W is getting justification for leaving. I am going to give it another shot, really sit on my hands and listen to what she is saying. I get to wrapped up in emotion sometimes. I know W is just waiting for me to crack so she can go back and write in her journal - see, he still doesn't get it...
Good luck to you M - we both need a lot of it!
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09