How nice it was of your daughter to make dinner/tea for you! That was very thoughtful of her!
I know what you mean about trying this program and it not working to save your M. I actually spoke of this a while ago on my thread. The main answers I received though was it's more about changing us and the M is just a bonus. I can't say I've done all I can though, or even half of it yet, because I'm hard-headed but am starting to do this now. I think as time moves forward though, you will begin to feel better. Fake it til you make it sweets!