In my counseling sessions with the pastors, they told me NOT TO set rules and to allow him to come over, if he calls and wants to talk, talk to him, be kind, love from a distance, that sort of thing.
I remember you telling me this a long time ago....boy I tried it in my sitch...but my H was one of those who took advantage and never saw anything 'wrong' with the situation....I wish I could have lived through this without setting the rules ...but my heart was too weak and my H too full of himself to see.
I DO admire you greatly SF ! You know that !
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
