M - I was reading on a different post that you are still going to MC. I am struggling with whether I should go or not. As you know by my thread, I am going back and forth. You and I are in the same boat as far as MC - W wants us to be friends, I want to save the M. I wouldn't call this MC, not even C really. But you seem like you think it a good idea to stay. Interested in your thoughts.
CBK
Well, the MC helps me. I feel it's my only time when I can talk about the R and feel that it won't be a backslide. that may be DAM thinking on my part but that's what I feel. It's a time when my W can talk also. She may say that she is going for the freindship after the D but when she talks in MC it gives me ideas on what she was feeling, why WE failed, what I can do to be better.
The MC is very much pro marriage and wants us to reconcile. I believe the MC thinks she can help us. I went to the MC by myself last app. The MC is someone who WE/I can talk to who will be objective. It has helped me. That's why I continue. If my W goes then that gives me hope that therte will someday be an us.
The MC has called my W out once and I feel that if I can get my W to go again then what the MC says might just help my W to SEE what SHE is doing.
I don't know. I wish I would have gone years ago but pride stopped me. if my W won't go I intend to go see someone, hopefully the same person. I feel better after I taljk to her and don't feel like all hope is lost.
