I too am starting to zip the lips when needed, my anger came out and I let him know. It was important for me...not him, but ME !
I don't know what H thinks of me now, I'd be lying if I said I didn't care at all, but you know, I care less, nowadays...it's no longer what defines me.
Let his anger go right past you, know in your heart that you are a wonderful woman and mother !
I am so proud of you !
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus