Just Honest..

[Lissie]

UM

Breathe.

First of all. Don't let his actions make you react.

Now is the time you bit that tonge till you taste blood.

Trust me.

They become bullies.

You were mad that your D saw the skank. Understandable. So you reacted, I want to meet the skank, I want to know where you live, and so forth.

While your mouth if moving, I know those words are coming out of your mouth, but that is not what he heard.

He heard. You are a looser and a cheater. (or something along those lines, that pushes his guilt button)

SOOOOOOOOO

You are going to detach. You are not detached. B/c these stupid words that are coming out of his mouth, are actually pushing your buttons now.

And when I read what he wrote It makes me laugh. Javier used to be the same way. I would cry, b/c he was so mean.

Blech, never again.

Also, if a certain date was coming up, Javier would turn to a monster.

I would have an X on the calendar, for specific dates. Cuz, I knew the spew was coming.

So listen chickie. Let it roll off your back.

I know easier said than done. It has been long enuff, with him being a devil, and you reacting.

For most people now would be the time to Stand their ground, and talk back.

But not when they are bullies. Now you need to zip the lip.

Stop worrying about these things, let things unfold. Do not continue the fight, he will see that when you don't "fight" back (and to him, you are fighting back) he will have no one to blame but himself.

HUGS