To Hope or Not to Hope?

[buenosuerte]

don't worry about venting, we all have been there. as far as the finacial area, i've been in the same boat and still am rate there with you. good news is you have conversations or contact with yours, mine seems to do the drive by, sends friends over with diapers 1 time and leaving voice msgs on my phone of our song.

maybe when he's there next, just sit down and say i know you love the kids and want what is best for them, we need to get a few logistical things taken care of, word it how you feel would be best - this was a suggestion from my coach months ago. it went well but my h fell through on the follow through. try to get something set up automatically without bringing the courts into effect. u say allotment oh yes military wife, talk to the chaplan and red cross and if it is even worse you can pull some strings not recommened to talk to his is 1SG, one thing the military takes seriously is a soldiers obligation to children and family money wise. I was in army for 14 years. u may even be able to change his allotments -baq and such to come to an account for you, it's worth looking into but these are things for SURVIVAL mode only.