You are probably right GF, it is probably too soon to ask him to read the book.
But, what I am afraid of is moving along just like we are and never talking about it for fear of disrupting the calm. I don't want all of this to get swept under the rug. At the same time I don't want him to feel like we are going to have a R talk every time he sees me. ...I guess I have to keep that whole patience thing in mind.
