That sucks, but you can still show her you are her partner regardless of what she choses. Take the higher road, you'll feel better about yourself. "W, I know you're tired and bummed. Son and I are going out for Slurpies with the money I would have spent on cigs, it'd be great if you'd join us. Slurpies are just the cure for a little blues AND for a cigarette craving."
Good job on the cigs, you can do it!!
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09