For the guys with kids and a WAW

[hopeful4her]

rop, I think it all has to do with us GALing and having them see the changes in us are not temporary. We need to show them how exciting and interesting we really are. That life will indeed be different and better than before.

In her post, she had mentioned the things that she was getting from OM that she was craving. The things he was telling her. But at the same time, she says to say these things to WW. I tried this, and it backfired. I became smothering. I don't think she wanted to hear these things from me. Maybe I over did it. Not sure.

What do you think, WDID? All sorts of things I would like to tell WW but don't. It looks like it comes off as pursuing.

I need to do the things to GAL. I haven't done enough.

Last night went well enough. I fixed dinner and when WW got home (at the time I expected her to) we closed off the kitchen and let the puppies out. WW, myself, S14, D11 and D6 were having a blast playing with them and having fun. While we were all in the kitchen, I finished dishes and was snacking on some chips and dip. I stuck a chip into the dip and offered to WW a couple of times and she ate them. We ate dinner in the living and watched a family movie together. After kids in bed, outside for a smoke and ask her about her day. She tells me little bit. Head to bed a little early.

This morning, I offer lunch. She thinks for a minute and declines. RRR. Maybe she is having lunch with OM today or maybe she had lunch with him yesterday, as she left her lunch bag at work. After kids get on bus, we finish getting ready. I go to room to tell her goodbye and have a great day. She looks at me direct and tells me goodbye. I didn't like the look. A little distant. I call her while on the road to have her check the secret spot for the spare key for the kids to get to.

I was thinking of giving her a hug this morning, but didn't. I was thinking a peck on the check, but didn't. I wanted to tell her that she looked sexy in my t-shirt this morning. Too soon I think. I end up calling her again before I get to work. After I call, I'm thinking, Ok, now I look like I'm pursueing. I say hi and she says yes. Not hi or hey. Yes. Now she seems bothered. I talk about how tired I am. Ask her how she slept. She says good. Not good conversation. I shouldn't have called. Oh, well. Maybe a set back. I'll recover. I'm giving too much. Maybe too nice. I'll back off a bit.