So, since H has been making all the contact, I was planning on sending H a text today telling him I hope he has a good day at work today. Well, he beat me to the punch. Just a few minutes ago he called me just to talk and to see how my day was going. ..What has gotten into this man??
Another baby step.....Excellent!
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I really want him to read it. I think I may bring it up when I see him Wednesday, although it is really long and I am not sure he will be up for it. I was thinking maybe I could go through and highlight things for him to read. We'll see what he says.
Just my opinion, but I think I would hold off on asking H to read the book for at least another couple of weeks. Your sitch seems to be progressing very well at the moment with lots of baby steps. Perhaps a giant leap can wait awhile. H might not be ready for that just yet. Remember, he said he wanted to take things slowly. My H said the same thing, and in his mind, that meant he couldn't make any promises and he didn't want to feel pressured to make any.
Last edited by GoingForward; 04/29/0804:54 PM.
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