Although your H moving out, on the surface, seems like something "bad", I don't really get that sense here at all. Something about his sentiment, his statements to you, the promises of exclusivity, wanting your M to work out "very much" etc.
So despite feeling like you've been abandoned, this might just be the catalyst both of you need to come together in a healthier R. YOU might just discover that you are stronger than you ever knew. More capable of living and having fun without H.
H will likely learn that you ARE becoming a partner who is easy to be with, fun, confident...someone he WANTS to share his life with.
So your task, should you accept it, is to LIVE LIFE fully, socialize, do things you've been putting off, see movies YOU want to see, and keep on becoming YOU!
Shiny
P.S. Oh, honey, if I could only send 15 pounds to you over the internet!
