thanks again for posting all your ideas and advice. You are right of course, it is advice and nothing more. That being said there is a change in myself that was an almost audible "click" in my head when I just realized that she is NOT going to come to her senses. She likes living life the way she is living it and she needs to realize the way she treats me is bad. I have been very nice, but very firm about what I am going to do.
There has been no yelling, no shouting and no fighting. I refuse to be baited into a fight with her. Again I am trying to be there for my kids and make this transition as easy as possible for them I am not sure what the future holds right now, but I am keeping a positive additude about it.
Again thanks for everyone's advice, it is appreciated.
