I want him to come to his senses but since that is not going to happen....I really don't expect anything.....I'm sure he'll avoid me...

I think I finally figured out what he is planning for future....
I was reading on line about divorce/separation and as long as you haven't lived with the person for a year you can get the divorce...so, I'm sure his OW is feeding that to him...if he stays away it will be easier....then can I still contest it if I want to...Can I ask him what his plans are?? or should I just leave it alone? Probably not give him any ideas....he had told me a while ago that he was reading on line about separation...every time I think about it it makes me sick to my stomach...I don't want to be divorced....

HHHHhhhhhhhhhh............ \:\(

Treese

H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity