RTL, you are still working it. Good to hear. I took a little break from this forum but here I am checking in again.
Patience with yourself and your wife is called for. Patience, patience.
I know it is hard to be away from your daughter. I know what it is like because I have that situation forced upon me as well. And it is hard, very hard. The enforcement of that restriction is what drove me to take a break from the board. But I have found some hope and am now getting a new place and I'm determined to make it great for me and for my kids. I will make the best of it.
I know you will find the best path, too. It's not your ideal situation now, but you can and will make the best of it, I know.
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....