Having a Grandbaby is Great...............big difference in becoming a parent again....he's thrilled, what else is he going to say. What a fool.

As far as getting over what they did to us, especially long term marriage US, I never will. He's tuned out to be to big of a dissappointment to me and you just can't get over something like that. Sure, you heal, sure you move on, but as far as forgetting it happened, as far as not still feeling anger........never.

Gigi, it's great you have moved on to a new relationship, I wish you all the best. It's also really wise and smart of you to realize you have healed, but you will also always have some issue's of what happened.

Keep in touch.