What I meant was I offer her chances to go by herself with her friends or to her parents. She still goes to my parents house sometimes by herself with S. Sometimes I politley excuse myself, it is one thing to be at the house and live the scenario. It is completely different when I have to with my parents around also. In addition, she is less likely to talk or act like herself around my parents, not that she says bad things, she just clams up around them.
I can't stand that, that is a trigger so I minimize the together visits to my parents. It is also awkward for my parents at times. Bottom line the sitch sucks, it sucks we are here, but we are here for a reason. We will fix ourselves and improve our relationship skills. For whatever purpose that fills in the future this is why we are in this situation.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
