Wow, these sitch's are parallel to mine. My W is adamant that D is the best thing for her and come hell or high water she is going to get it. Funny thing that I see in your post Goodfight is that my good days are outnumbering her good days right now. Which is just the way it should be. I know you all are going to be fine one way or another, and that is very important for them to see. I have hope for you all!