I think that also, it will take the D and our Son being upset before she figures it out. Because of this I have been contemplating leaving on weekends to take our S. to my folks or alternating with spending time with my grandparents.
The one problem is how to I balance it with the work load around the house, she is always sick or complaining about some health issue and does less than ever. So if I bail on weekends it just means more to do when I get back. I just don't know.
GF-1 1/2 years?? Do you have any hope or are you just over it?? I can't even look that far ahead right now. I can't imagine and im probably better off if I don't.