I'll join the "hang on to that towel!" gang. What you MUST keep in mind right now is that right now your emotions are like skin that's been dragged behind a motorcycle doing 90 on a gravel road...any little thing is going to HURT!!!
The WORST thing I can imagine about the invite is this: They'd somehow heard there might be trouble with you and H and just didn't KNOW what was going on...agonized over it? Should they put both names? What if you'd separated? How awkward?
So they compromised with his name and "Guest"...thinking if you ARE Still together, you're covered!
You wanna hear something funny? I just went and grabbed an invite from one of CJ's cousins (who I don't know all that well) and it was Adressed to CJ and guest!!! I opened the bloody thing and never even noticed it!
Here's an even more benign interpretation: They just wrote "Everyone & Guest" to save on looking up names and save on ink.
Whatever, let this one roll for now. JHO of course!
However if you CAN'T let it roll, meaning your H will sense "something's wrong", perhaps you can tell him in a nonaccusatory manner how seeing the invite worded like that just set you back for a bit.
