A friend at work recently lost her father and immediatley following had to have a hysterectomy because she had tumors, having them happen both together really sent her for a loop and she has been going to grief counselling. She brought me in a package because she said a lot of people there are grieving living relationships, either divorce, separation or just the loss of what that person was to you even if they are still there. Anyways what I wanted to share with you was a poem that was in it because I keep thinking about it as people give strong worded "advice" mostly in my home life.
I will not tell you
I will not tell you how to feel I will not tell you how you feel You already know.
And, I will not tell you "I know how you feel" Because I don't And neither does anyone else.
At best, I remember how I felt when my loses occurred
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009