A friend at work recently lost her father and immediatley following had to have a hysterectomy because she had tumors, having them happen both together really sent her for a loop and she has been going to grief counselling. She brought me in a package because she said a lot of people there are grieving living relationships, either divorce, separation or just the loss of what that person was to you even if they are still there. Anyways what I wanted to share with you was a poem that was in it because I keep thinking about it as people give strong worded "advice" mostly in my home life.

I will not tell you

I will not tell you how to feel
I will not tell you how you feel
You already know.

And, I will not tell you "I know how you feel"
Because I don't
And neither does anyone else.

At best, I remember how I felt
when my loses occurred


Me~34
H~38
D6.5

EA/PA-DEC.07

Moved out~Apr.13,08
Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08
No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009