I think that also, it will take the D and our Son being upset before she figures it out. Because of this I have been contemplating leaving on weekends to take our S. to my folks or alternating with spending time with my grandparents.
The one problem is how to I balance it with the work load around the house, she is always sick or complaining about some health issue and does less than ever. So if I bail on weekends it just means more to do when I get back. I just don't know.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!