BFM, how does someone treat one the way God would while going NC? I'm asking for my own sitch and not necessarily SF's. I think she's doing quite great and being very loving during all this spinning. If you don't want to advise here due to the hijack, you can go to my thread too. Thanks!
In my counseling sessions with the pastors, they told me NOT TO set rules and to allow him to come over, if he calls and wants to talk, talk to him, be kind, love from a distance, that sort of thing.
They did give me Biblical references to this behavior and also, Jesus did not deny anyone, he accepted them no matter what sin they committed.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
If you don't want to advise here due to the hijack, you can go to my thread too. 
