What should I do to prepare myself for if he does want to see me and talk about our R?
Tipper, I think you should make sure that you are very busy for the next couple of weeks so that you are not available for any relationship talks..
He has been cycling back and forth for a while now, that must be destroying you.
He doesn't seem to know what he wants.
What do you want?
If you want more from your relationship than you have had in the past then you need to make the changes you want for you. No more going running when he calls.
If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got.
Nutty.
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.