What are the legal implications if his name is still on your house and the bill collectors come? Can they take your house since it sounds like you've decided it will still be his house for at least 5 years?
At the mediator's we did talk about me not being liable for whatever he puts there, that anything stored there is just his responsibility. The mediator did talk about what would happen if collectors come after him if his name is still in the house, the only way around it is for me to refinance, I yet have to find a lower rate than what I have (5.8). I talked to him this morn and told him if he didnt' accept the new terms (1x a month, me not liable for ANY theft/loss/damage, him having to call before coming and having someone in the house when he does come). He started with the usual "I dont' know what's your problem with me putting stuff up there..." but I said either take it or leave it, if you dont' like it then just call your L and I'll do the same. He actually shut up for a while and he pretty much accepted, didnt' say yes but didnt say no either, anyways, we are talking tonight so I can forward the changes to the mediator this week, and this thing will be done.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
