Just wondered what you meant by your wife is freaked out. What did she say/do that made you see she is freaked out? Just wanting info if you feel like sharing. Do you think she is getting a wake up call/reconsidering things or just generally freaked out?
And you shouldn't file unless you are sure you are ready for that step. That is inside you to decide. But the fact that you ask why you shouldn't tells me you are looking for a reason not to...that is a reason in itself maybe?
