To become not REACTIVE be proactive. It is such a change for me.
I think what I notice MOST in you T is that you have done what YOU need to do for YOU. As I have watched, your pain, your sorrow and your fears do not control your actions.
My C wants me to be at NC....FOR ME. Funny, in the beginning I would do EVERYTHING in regards to DB for HIM not for ME. The change and shift is so strange and foreign to me.
Thank you for continually being honest and open.
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again