H is Having Affair after all - Part 2

[Evie]

I have been reading a little on another sitch and it has made me question a couple of things in my sitch, so I would like your opionions please:

1.H still texts or emails me frequesntly, often imho finding an excuse to do so, b/c its seems trivial. I either ignore or answer with short replies.

I'm handling my sitch atm with distance to the point of avoidance, i feel H has made up his mind and is pushing for the house to be up for sale, still seeing o/w (no proof, but my gut instinct says yes), D mentioned and the fact that he says he has been unhappy for years, i feel there is no hope at all now.

But is there?

H is still staying connected - is that b/c he hates confrontation and wants to be amecable?

or is it that he could be confused himeself that things are not what they thought it would be?

I'm so hurt by the lies and deceit that i may just be too proud to see beyond my own stubborness, i'm just frightened to 'give' any more of myself incase he hurts me more.

We're supposed to be meeting on Friday at 8.00 pm. If i suggested a meal or a drink i'm sure he would be up for it. But should I do that or just meet as arranged at the house?