Just me, but right now I don't think I'd take anything he says at face value.

The first time FW came home he was still seeing OW behind my back. Meeting her in secret, etc. and told me that he wasn't. Swore up and down that he hadn't seen her.

I totally and completely believed him. Didn't have a clue until he came clean when he came home this time.

I don't want to discourage you in any way, but I do want you to be open to the possibility that he's still seeing her.

I'm with Saffie, I lean toward him seeing her more than I lean toward no contact with her.

BFM

There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you.
David Burns, Intimate Connections