The book has arrived but I have not had a chance to read it. Will do it asap!
I think the thing I'm struggling with now is that he seems to be 'over' his depression. He is nowhere near as bad as he was this time last year. He just seems to be convinced that I am not what he wants anymore. The counsellor said that she has known a lot of couples who meet young, get married then one partner has a change of heart. That may be true but I dont think that was good for H to hear-its justifying his actions.
He just talks very matter of factly about how getting married seemed like the perfectly natural thing to do at the time, and he was really happy, but a few months later he just changed his mind. He says that he feels we've both changed (but won't really elaborate on that), that the relationship and I do not make him happy anymore. I asked him if I was the person he saw by his side in his future, and he said no.
He started a new job a week before he moved out, and seems to be getting on really well with it. I feel that he has moved on emotionally from us and I'm not sure how to get that back.
Can this be turned around??
Me-26 H-27 T-10 years M-20 months First bomb-Feb 07 Second bomb-March 08
