What a night! Alot got put out into the open, and now you both need some time to deal with it. You and I share a common trait - we let our minds run wild with the "what if's". That's a killer. You know your H has alot of personal baggage to deal with, and he's most likely projecting alot of that on you right now. In my opinion, that's what you are seeing now. He's learning that the OW is not the answer, so he's got to look a little deeper.
