The most important part of this is if you look at all of the success stories on this board, they all have one thing in common, the LBS detached and GAL and stopped worrying about what was going on. Their spouse saw this in them and noticed the change and realized their spouse was no longer doing the chasing, in fact if anything, they were doing the walking or it appears this way in their eyes as there are no more R talks and no more asking questions.
We all want what we can't have, or at least many of us do. This goes for almost everything in life, not just relationships.
Wise man..... Very wise indeed....
Bogey free golf this weekend Ping. I liked the shot where you got up and down when you dropped off the kids. Very good job. Good interaction and excellent idea on making plans as if it were no big deal. You have a life to live. Women are attracted to men who seem to be going somewhere with their life. Remember that this is like the U.S. Open. Par is good. Par will have you in the hunt come Sunday.
Keep doing exactly what you are doing. Let her come to you. Be the stronger one emotionally. Keep on being nice to her and just let it happen. (it is what it is).. The strong silent type is quite attractive to a woman. They love men with emotional strength that is sensitive to HER emotions and wants and needs without making a big deal about his problems. " Don't worry honey,I will handle it".....
