It's the lack of intimacy that meks me think htere is still something going on. If however your SL was pretty infrequent before all this OW business cropped up I am probably way off mark.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength