when stbx came back I thought I was done here, I was wrong. When the D bomb was dropped i thought i was done here, I was also wrong. We come here not because we have all the answers and have never uttered a careless word or messed up royally, we come here because regardless our mistakes we decide to move on and give all we can... until it is time to realize we've fought enough (those who D) and that we must choose a different path.
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I gave up the fight. Something I said I would never do.
were you unforgiving, had an om or rebuf chances to fix the M? then no, you didnt' give up. Some of us have no choice than to accept the man/women we married are no longer there and we mourn the M, keep the good times in the back of our minds, pack our bags and choose a new destination. You said you wouldnt' give up, and you didn't, it is him who has made it clear his life is heading elsewhere and who wants the D.
still in my prayers hon))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
